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The Most Difficult Decision
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By Joann Henry

When you adopt a puppy, you are inviting him to share your life and you get the privilege of sharing his. As his owner, you are responsible for making sure he behaves, providing him plenty of healthy food, and giving him plenty of love and attention. He repays you with unconditional love and anyone who's had a happy doggy face to meet them after a long hard day at work knows that what he asks for is little enough for the joy that he so happily offers. Part of being a responsible and loving dog owner, however, is knowing when you need to say good bye.

There are unfortunately several situations in which you may be called upon to make one of the most heart breaking decisions of a dog owner's life. Your dog might have been in accident, or he might have developed a life-threatening illness. In the middle of his situation, you might be called upon by your vet to decide whether it would be more merciful to continue treatment or to simply let your beloved pet go. Times like this are extraordinarily difficult, but as the person who has always been responsible for your dog, you need to make the right decision for both his sake and yours.

When placed in this position, you need to evaluate all the facts as logically as you can. What is the vet proposing? What are the chances of success? Even if the operation or treatment does succeed, what is your precious pup's quality of life going to be like? These are all questions that your vet can help answer for you, but you are the one that knows your dog the best. You know better than anyone else what will make him happy and content, and you know what situations will make him miserable.

If you ever have to make this difficult decision, it will be difficult to avoid being swayed by sentiment. You should never think of euthanasia as having your beloved dog killed; in many cases it is a mercy, though a heartbreaking one for the ones left behind. Your dog doesn't have your powerful reasoning abilities; he will never understand why he is in pain from continual treatment or diseases. All he will know is that every day is difficult and he cannot do the things that used to make him happy. You are the one who is responsible for your dog's continued happiness and contentment, so seriously think about how your dog will live out his life. If you feel that he can come out of treatment as a healthier dog who can enjoy his life, that's one thing, but if all it means is continued survival by scraping by, you need to consider your dog's happiness.

The big question to ask yourself is whether your beloved canine companion is still enjoying his life. Think about all the things that he loves to do. Is he still able to do them? If your dog can't muster up the energy to even enjoy the snacks you bring, or even gentle petting can make him uncomfortable, it might be time to say goodbye.

About the Author: Joann Henry operates "Doggie Health Care" http://www.DoggieHealthCare.com a blog all about our pooches health. Sign up to receive her newsletter, & not only will you get some free tips to keep your dog healthier, but FOR A LIMITED TIME, she'll give you a FREE ebook. http://www.DoggieHealthCare.com

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By moni3 @ Thursday, February 21, 2008 1:41 PM
I agree with this article fully,after having to make that choice myself when my poodle had lung cancer,I realized by keeping her here it was only being selfish and letting her suffer,you have to know when to let go and though its hard,do it because you love them enough to stop the suffering.

By phillybigboy @ Thursday, February 21, 2008 9:48 PM
Two years ago I had to make the most difficult decision of putting "My Best Friend" down. she was in severe pain, and and nothing we did helped her! Losing your family member is very painful and I will never forgive myself for putting her down, but she no longer has to suffer--no day goes by that I don't quietly mourn for her!

By tonkasmom @ Thursday, March 06, 2008 12:24 AM
I am a veterinary technician, and I see people have to make these choices almost daily. I cry almost everytime that I see a family say their last good byes to their beloved pets. I had to make the decision a month ago for our 18 year old Chow X. Although I knew the day would come, it was still hard, although I knew that it would be for the best. We always need to remember that quality always outwieghs quantity.

By Elizabeth M Smith @ Friday, March 21, 2008 5:04 PM
If we could only expect the same...it would be a less frightening world.If there were more love in thjs world but,Alas1 Reality dictates spayping and nuetering....get the message out!

By Donna Fortner @ Friday, April 04, 2008 8:17 PM
I had to make the painful decision to put down my precious furbaby PJ, a 3lb teacup poodle, due to the fact after being on prednisone due to her having lymphangectasia, the steroids had make her bones brittle/soft. She jumped off my bed & broke her back, which paralyzed her. Just 2 days previously I asked the vet taking care of her when was enough enough. I had been taking her to the vet every few days to have fluid drawn off her abdomen. I worked 2 fulltime jobs to make sure she had her medications, tests, treatments, everything that she needed. The vet told me that if I was keeping her here on this earth for me that it was wrong, but if I was keeping PJ on the earth because she still had some good days left in her that it was right & that I would know when the time was right to not let her suffer any longer. Little did I know that I would have to make that decision 2 days later. In fact I held her in my arms while the vet euthanized her. I could not let her go through that without me holding her until she took her last breath. PJ was the best little furbaby & was with me through thick & thin. She is very much missed & my life will never be the same without her. Animals give us unconditional love & they should be treated the same way.

By suzannep @ Monday, April 07, 2008 1:17 AM
I agree with this article and relate to it. I had to make that decision for my baby. I knew it was the right thing to do and my girl told me through her eyes that she was ready and to let her go.

By Richard Stone @ Wednesday, April 16, 2008 10:15 PM
April 15, 2008

Date of Birth 1/4/00
Date of Rescue 6/4/00
Resting in peace 4/15/08

My Dearest Jake

I miss you like you can’t believe – you were a good, great dog. When I would come into the house you would come up to me with a toy in your mouth to give to me.

I know that I’m being selfish in still wanting you to be with me but I know that you’re in a better place and no more pain. Hopefully you’re running around with little puppies and having a great time. Hopefully one day I will again be with you and all my other dogs.

I will never ever forget about you. You brought me happiness, unconditional love. You made me a better person. You were a lot smarter than me, you destroyed some things but I forgave you. You made me smarter by learning to put things away so you couldn’t get to them.

I know that you forgave me for not putting you to sleep earlier – I never dreamt that you would lose your sight and hearing like that. Please, please forgive me. I was being selfish.
I just wanted you to live longer.

I just hope that the short time that we had together made you happier – the walks, the loving, me holding on to you. It will never be forgotten. I just miss you so much. There is a big hole in my heart without you. When it is my time, I want to go to doggie heaven if there is such a thing – I want to be with all the animals

By Sara Meager @ Monday, June 16, 2008 10:55 PM
The decision to let Gizmo go was made for me. There was no... 'can I or can't I?'.
It was almost midnight when I fell asleep beside Gizmo on January 17th 2006, and at about 3 o'clock in the morning I heard very loud meows coming from downstairs. I figured it was Kitty - my oldest cat - who has a tendency to meow louder because she cannot hear herself. I eventually got fed up of the meowing and tip toed downstairs to see if she wanted anything.
When I rounded the corner into the kitchen, I saw Gizmo on the floor with his back legs stretched out straight behind him, meowing as loud as he could. I instantly thought he might have fallen off of the counter and broken something. I rushed in my parents room and got my dad who attempted to pick him up, but Gizmo had bitten through his thumb nail.
We searched through our phonebook and found a 24/7 emergency clinic and rushed him there. When we got there, the vet told us that an aneurism had travelled down Gizmo's spine and into his back legs, making him permanently unable to walk or move properly. He was in incredible pain, and there was nothing - absolutely nothing - that we could have do. He was put down in my arms.

The cat I fell asleep beside died in my arms that night. I cried myself to sleep for weeks, and missed weeks of school.
Now, two years later, I have a tattoo for him... "I will see you again, a long time from now."

I cherish everything because of that night, and that one moment.

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